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Nice Guys – # 7 Succeed With Women Without Appearing Desperate

Part 7 of 7 Series

Amuse Her Without Appearing Desperate

That sounds difficult, especially if you are a bit nervous or shy or inexperienced with women. You won’t be so nervous if you have applied my recommendations in Part 2 Act confidently and Part 3 Be a good listener

To be fun you must be relaxed, not rushed and be prepared to focus on the now, what’s happening in the present.  If you have difficulty with this, I recommend Eckhart Tolle’s book titled, The Power of Now .

You will need to have a sense of humour and most important of all, be able to laugh at yourself.  Be able to laugh if she is late, be flexible, open-minded and practise being easygoing. Practise it with everyone. Develop your easy-going side. This will help you to appear to be good fun before you even try.

Try to see the funny side when there are minor disasters. If you make a habit of this you will make life easier for yourself and for a partner too.

I went on a hayride at night at a barbeque fund raiser. The horse became unhitched from the cart and we were gone for a long time. Although the whole experience was quite innocent, one woman threatened her husband with a bottle when he arrived back. She thought the very worst of him.

My husband, although he was a jealous type and was probably feeling anxious too he told everyone that the reason we were gone so long was that the horse ran out of chaff.  He had a well developed sense of humour and was able to laugh about a situation that could have been unpleasant.

Women enjoy the attention of being teased, gentle teasing – not cruel teasing. Don’t tease her about her family, her weight or other women – huge NO NO’s.

Before you meet her, bring to mind some of your best stories of amusing incidents throughout your life. Don’t throw more than one in at a time. Just sneak one in every now and again when there is a lull in the conversation.  If you overdo it she will think you are boring and that’s even worse than being dull.

Plan interesting, fun things to do. Be careful; what you might think is fun i.e. roller coaster rides etc may not be her idea of fun. Nothing scary at first. Ask her does the “Big Dipper” sound like fun or too scary.

Most women will consider a game of golf or tennis or a trip to an art gallery as fun if you are good company, easy going, considerate and mildly entertaining.

You know you can be good fun with your mother, sisters, female cousins or aunts so you can be just as much fun with a new female friend as long as you think of her as a possible friend and not a possible lover. By thinking of her as a lover you will become nervous and may even spoil the fun.

The key to being fun is to be relaxed and easy going, focus on the present and don’t take life too seriously.

Headings in the Nice Guys series

Nice Guys – # 1 Be Admired Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 2 Impress Her Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 3 Turn Her On Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 4 Show You Care Without Appearing Desperate

Nice  Guys – # 5 Be Attentive Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – #6  Show Respect Without Appearing Desperate

Nice Guys – # 7 Amuse Her Without Appearing Desperate

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About Author

Rosalind Baker’s professional commitment to ‘match making’ is well into its second decade, although she has always possessed that innate ability to pair people off. She even introduced her ex-husband to his next wife!
Having established Entre Nous: Relationship Consultants & Educators in 1991 she has now lost count of the number of relationships the organisation has helped to establish.
While there have been many ‘fly-by-night’ introduction agencies over the past two decades in Melbourne, Entre Nous has stood the test of time. This is due, in no small part, to the professionalism and passion of Rosalind Baker.
She has written three best sellers. The first, ‘Dial A Woman’ offers advice to Australian men on how to choose the right partner and then maintain a successful relationship.
The obvious sequel, ‘Dial A Man’ advised women on how to recognise and attract the man of their dreams. While writing her third book, ‘Dial a Personality’, she realised she had discovered the successful formula for matching couples.
As a journalist Rosalind has written extensively on social affairs and women’s issues and is a well-known social commentator on courtship.
Rosalind has been the delegate representing Australian and New Zealand at the International Institute of Introduction Services.
She is a keen follower of the Arts and supports Opportunity International.
She had four children and with her new husband, Tom Baker, they now have 11 grandchildren between them.

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I married a "nice guy". They don't finish last. Some women just prefer the "bad boy" type. Don't change yourself. Send flowers, open the car door, pull out her chair, pay the bill (unless she really wants to pay – at that point tell her "to make it fair, we'll compromise and split the check down the middle"). Chivalry is not dead. We love a man who sweeps us off our feet. That doesn't usually occur with "bad boys".


Wordpress Said:

Great talent Der Mann.


WPMixer Said:

Excellent work. Pleasure to watch. Perfect music :-) ))


Will K Said:

Not all girls are like that. It's usually the nice girls that like the nice guys and want to be treated with respect. Since you are in high school a lot of the girls no nothing about relationships and what type of guys they should go out with. But definitely in the future the girls will appreciate your kindness :)


Melissa S Said:

The Skatepark definatly. Like at mine not only are there skaters but there are BMXers and a few roller bladers. Alot of times the guys who work there are teens and really hot. :]

Also if you live by a popular lake try going there because alot of times they'll be wakeboarding and swimming. I wouldnt suggest a beach too many people and if they are surfing they'll be too focused on catching a good swell rather than trying to scout out girls sitting in the sand a mile away.

Also where I live alot of guys BMX and Dirt bike so try finding out if there are any trails near where you live and hang around theree. Make it look like youre really interested and whenever someone gets good air look fascinated dont sit there and swat at bugs. Then it seems like your just some girl hoping for a hook up.

Also do you live by a soccer field? Alot of time guys will be playing a friendly game of soccer with their friends. and sometimes their shirts will be oiff ;) Same goes for a basketball court.

Lastly just go to your local pool Im sure you can find quite a few cuties there :]


Jed S Said:

there are some girls who like nice-nice guys, but it is uncommon. nice guys are usually in the friend zone because they talk to the girl like some of their friends. talking about anything .. anytime .. anywhere that sort of thing.

be nice and courteous like you are now, of course, but try to keep some of yourself a mystery. make her want more of you that she will only get if you have more relationship. you know?

just don't give up on your nice personality. it's a good thing


Amy Said:

How about you trying to get out of your virtual world and try the real one? You have less chances to see a bastard than on internet.

So get your ass up your chair, get dressed, make yourself beautiful and go to a disco or chill out with friends…and look for them…or even i would say HUNT!


Nice work, you did pretty good.


Free Blog Said:

You’re really good man. You’ve got excellent talent.


bball22 Said:

i dont have a type..i go for all types and the main one i like best are nice guys…as long as the guy is nice, interesting in different ways and knows how to make me smile, and gets that tingly feeling going in my heart then nothing else matters really…i wish guys around here were like that but most of them go for the "hot" ones..and theres nothing really i can do about that..im going to HS so hopefully there are good guys..when i look back, i hope i dont regret..even if i do, its life


When you are really nice to women, it seems to women like you are trying to win them over. It conveys to them that you need their approval. It puts them in a position of power and makes you appear weak. Women want someone else to take control

Women like funny guys with a little attitude that dont suck up to them. They are able to turn the tables and have women wanting their approval and then are in the position of power. All women (except those wanting marriage) are looking for someone who is challenging, not someone who agrees with everything they say.

I dont really care whether nice guys are weak or not but I try to understand how women think.


Teresa P Said:

Called supply and demand.
Most women don't like nice guys.
Guys notice this, and change their ways for the better. (For them anyway)
Why didn't you ask a nice guy out? You need to learn that good/ nice guys protect themselves from bad women, so they don't ask out much.
You need to pounce girl !!!
Good luck!


Wordpress Said:

woww that’s really relax and beatiful soung .good picture of jhony depp !


Because they can hide their true selves on the internet. On or off, they're all the same.


Blogger Said:

Incredible! He looks so life like. Just amazing…and what a beautiful subject


Anonymous Said:

Brilliant Willy, Just Brilliant =D


PortWine Said:

The saying goes that "nice goes finish last". But it's not really a nice guy per se, but guys who don't get girls or keep their interest are too nice. What this means is that they are so courteous or timid, or nice that they lack any zest or personality and can be quite boring. Therefore, women will lose interest in this type of guy. Another reason is, because they get too infatuated with the lady that they basically kiss her ass, and are pretty much a doormat. Ladies don't want a guy that falls all over them and is a pushover. They want a guy that is kind, but stand up for himself as well and doesn't let her hotness turn him into a needy, smothering, mat to walk all over. So basically, there;s nothing wrong with being a nice guy, it's just being too nice that it causes these things that make women lose interest in a guy. I think you can be with a lot of women if you are a nice guy, but have respect for yourself, and have a personality.

I am a nice guy, but I have been with girls and have not lost their interest because I have an "edge" to me as well,and even though I am nice, I don't let anyone walk all over me. When I mean edge, I mean that many people find me funny, because of my original sense of humor, and the wiseass in me, that is in a playfu manner, but not mean, which is a big difference.


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